Here is a blog that all men should read and few will actually follow. These are my words and I tend to stray from the path from time to time. Women have a way of making men want to chase them. For some reason it is in our blood to think that we need to impress women and look "good" for them. However, this is far from the truth. Granted, some women get off to making men jump through hoops like trained monkeys but most want a man who stands up for himself and does his own thing. If you think about it and really think, the guys and girls who are happiest in their relationships don't live for one another, they live their own lives that just happen to overlap. They do care about each other don't get me wrong but they are both equals and both do their thing.
So here is my advice for those wanting to start new flames or maybe just light the match for the night. DON'T CHASE!!! There is a place for that, its in the movies. You can figure out the time(from the most interesting man in the world). I recently went to a wedding where I was so hammered I don't remember a decent portion of it. Well apparently I was chasing after this girl like she had 4 tits. And apparently I was rejected. Now if I had just sat back and played it cool and been myself who knows what would have happened. But I can honestly say that I have been far more successful when I am just laid back and don't go out of my way. If it happens then it happens and when you chase you look desperate in front of everyone my friend.
"To the ones who left, the ones we left behind, and all the ones in between." The sailor
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I would like to make one very important point that was just brought to my attention. There is a very big difference between going after someone and chasing. If you go after someone it shows interest, you may buy them a drink or simply spark up a conversation. Chasing is when you are looking around the bar or wherever trying to find the person. Chasing is when you lose track of yourself and suffocate the person. This is extremely hard for most people to see in themselves. If you ever have to ask yourself if you are chasing then you are and you should stop, get a beer, and find your buddies. Another way to tell if you are chasing is if you leave your buddies constantly to go look for this chick without telling them. Another way to tell is simply ask your buddies and they will tell you. THEY ARE RIGHT!!!
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